He said: “Women always say they want a God-fearing man but they really can’t handle it. I was a very regular guy who had no qualms with the ladies. I had a great social life. Ladies where as easy as could be.But the day I gave my heart to God and became a preacher, all the girls I thought wanted a God fearing man fled from me.”
He said he remained five years without being in a relationship as all the girls he wanted to be with preferred the old him, that “had no ambition about them but considered fun instead.”
“It took a lot of prayers as I got tired of women. I had a terrible relationship after five years with a lawyer who churches prophesied about but it was a big mistake. She was like every other woman.”
Eventually, he found his one and only.
The day I knelt down to pray to God, giving specifications on the kind of wife I wanted, the next day I met my
wife,” he testified. “I realized I had never prayed to God on specifications on a life partner. The first time I did, God answered.”
Chidi said Ufoma has been the best thing but has not forgotten his bad experiences prior to finding her.
He said: “It is not only women that have a problem with getting a good guy, guys have a problem too because girls say they want godliness but they are not really prepared for it. They still prefer the fun to the responsibility of true and godly commitments. I realize now God answers specific prayers not ambigous prayers.
“It was the shortest relationship I ever had but yet it turned into marriage without hitches. I think we all need God in every aspect of our lives. Both single guys and ladies should be specific and prepared for what they say they desire in a longlasting relationship. Many times we lie to ourselves. It really takes God, sincerity and faithfulness on our parts to make it work. I love my wife Blessing and she is the best.
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